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Tuesday, July 29, 2008

? 7/29/2008 08:47:00 PM

HOORAYS!!! it's the end of IS lesson! which mean i won't hate tuesday anymore!!! wahahahahahha! =)))))))))))

today's presentation went off quite well.. 3 cheers for everyone! *clap clap*
after that, suki callled pizza for the class... had a small party!! i'm really glad to have her as our teacher.. she really did alot for the class, taught us alot and yeps.. i appreciate it! =) her ppt and little star is eunough to show how much she appreciated us! =)

had abit of lesson, the last part of Understadning relationship and then class photo taking which officially close the module! =)

How we connect emotionally?
-turning away
-turning against
-turning towards
* A couple who is cake towards each other emotionally enjoys deeper intimacy*

Six steps to intimacy

1)Being mindful rather than mindless-this means that, be in ur presence, really beng with ur love ones without distractions

2)Starting on a sweet Note! - Look for something nice in the person

3)using helpful complaints instead of harsh critism.

4)Be empathic, effective communication- look at others point of view

5)practice a healthy habit of mind!-focus on the posistive thing

6) Face up the conversation you need to have

ps- this applies to both love and sexuality relationship as well as FRIENDSHIP!

anyway, suki told us to pick someone inportant in our life and write down somthing good about the person. well.. i have chosen two! fisrt of all... my beloved sister jing!!!! and of cos!!! ZHI MING!!! =)

i will keep the sweet note with me! =)

*Quarrels does not lead to a break up BUT the way we quarrel causes break up*

Save your last dance for me will you :)